Organizing for ADD/ADHD
By Suzanna Letchford
Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder
(ADHD) pose special challenges when creating and maintaining organizational
systems. Though it seems that it is just clutter there are many missing
skills that are tied to the issue – the clutter is simply a symptom
of a deeper problem. The simple act of organizing has greatly affected many
areas of my clients’ lives; I have heard numerous reports of children
taking on more responsibility and being more motivated after just one organizing
session. Things like getting dressed, getting ready for bed and cleaning
up on their own are huge changes that occur after they have a system in
place that supports their needs.
Although disorders like ADD and ADHD affect individuals differently there
are key strategies that can help – adult or child. There are many
options available and techniques that can be tailored to your special need.
Many Professional Organizers specialize in working with ADD/ADHD and have
a long list of ideas but here are a few of the basics.
Make it Fun. A lack of focus is one of the most noticeable traits of the
ADD/ADHD child. This occurs most often when tasks are uninteresting, routine
or tedious. Matters like scheduling, organization and maintenance are particularly
difficult. Making organizing into a game or challenge is an effective way
to keep their interest. Setting a time limit and challenging them to complete
a certain task, such as gathering all Lego’s into the Lego bin before
the timer goes off offers motivation and excitement to an otherwise boring
job. Make sure these time limits are small and you keep the excitement up
by announcing time left, using music or some other reminder to point out
the time ticking away. Create new challenges frequently to keep them fresh.
Get them on board. When your child has a say in what is happening to their
space they are more likely to be involved and interested. This also helps
them want to maintain their space. Let them help choose bins and tell you
what their most important items are. Display special memories on higher
shelves and use bins to keep toys off the floor and out of sight. Limit
the number of posters and artwork on the walls and items on surfaces to
minimize the busyness in the room – the more serene an atmosphere
you can create the more control they will feel they have in their space.
Us e Centers. Create different “centers” in their rooms dedicated
to specific activities. Reading centers, art centers, homework centers and
more can help define where items belong and give a defined space for activity,
creating a sense of structure, order and purpose and making the organizing
system more logical.
Label! Using labels or pictures on bins and shelves can help your child
remember what goes into bins without having to pull them out and also where
to return them when they are finished. Label both the bin itself and the
shelf underneath for maximum benefit. Letting the older child create the
labels can be a fun project for them, too.
Use the energy. Create small projects that can be done in a short amount
of time with high energy if possible. Using the excess energy an ADD person
gets is a great way to quickly organize a closet, under a bed or sort a
Lego collection. Make sure the project can be completed before energy is
completely sapped and be aware and work with, not against, their moods.
Set goals and celebrate. Set goals and celebrate successes – a closet
cleaned or a dresser top cleared off is a reason to celebrate! Make noise,
sing a song or give a treat when you have accomplished a goal and take time
to enjoy it.
Take one bite at a time. For a big project break it down into smaller parts.
Decide to do one piece at a time – the bookshelf this weekend and
the toy box next weekend. The project will eventually be completed without
the burnout.
Create routines. Help your child to create new routines in order to maintain
order. Tying a new routine to an old one is a great way to remember the
change. Emptying the dishwasher before getting out a breakfast bowl, wiping
down the bathroom mirror when brushing their teeth or putting away all of
their books when they pull out their nighttime novel are some examples.
Placing reminders in hard to ignore areas also works. Leave the garbage
bags in front of the bedroom door to remember to take out the trash on the
way to the bus or have them place a note on a book-bag so that homework
is not forgotten can be especially helpful.
Cerate support. Many of our distractions can be eliminated simply by being
held accountable and having someone pay attention as well. Stay in the room
when it is being cleaned to prevent distraction or set a timer to go off
every ten minutes so they can check whether they are doing what they should
be doing. Hyper-focus (focusing too much time and attention perfecting a
small portion of the job while ignoring the larger need) can also be eliminated
in this way.
Know when to ask for help. Sometimes we simply do not know the best way
to help our loved one. If a job is too overwhelming or you are not sure
how to help your child to succeed at organizing professionals are available.
A Professional Organizer with training in dealing with ADD/ADHD can help
teach time management skills, set up systems that will work with your child’s
needs and help you to understand the best way to encourage them.
The best way to organize for ADD/ADHD is to work with it, not against it.
Use the fantastic moments of energy and focus to your benefit and create
routines that are logical to your child’s way of thinking. Once he/she
has built up a list of smaller successes you can continue increasing the
responsibilities. They will feel better about themselves and you can feel
good knowing that you are giving them skills they can use throughout their
lives.
For more ideas on organizing, motivating and scheduling for ADD check out
my blog at: http://aspacethatworks.blogspot.com/ and www.ASpaceThatWorks.com.
Suzanna is an organizer with a passion! She is owner of A Space That
Works Professional Organizing (www.ASpaceThatWorks.com) and works with both
businesses and families organizing their homes and lives. She has previously
worked with special needs children as an Assistant Teacher in the Autism
and Special Education classes of an elementary school and high school. She
has also spent years volunteering with special needs children and has training
in organizing for disabilities and ADD/ADHD. Passion for the process, creative
use of space and a supportive and friendly disposition help her in both
home and business organization projects.
Storing outfits together or choosing many easy mix and match items, few
different colors of socks and limiting the overwhelming number of clothing
and accessory choices can help your child succeed in dressing and putting
away laundry. Acknowledge even the small successes.